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YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE A GENIUS TO MAKE IT IN LIFE

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You don't have to be a genius to MAKE IT in life... You don't have to possess the highest qualification to get the best result.. You don't need to be a politician to be a World renowned Leader.. And for goodness sake, you don't need to be the best to get the best in anything. Many people has a mentality of trying to get the best idea, or the greatest knowledge or the perfect skill before you begin your race to success.  Excuse me, there's no ladder with just a single step. There's no small knowledge; there's no little idea; there's no insignificant opinion.  Work with whatever you have and make sure you pour your best into it. There's really no limit to what you can get if only you understand how to start and remain focused. #juststart  #nevergiveup  #youcandoit  #nowisthetime https://www.instagram.com/p/CGC14vlBhg5/?igshid=14po82ha4u72g

Work and Knowledge before results

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Have you ever been in that wonderful Dream land where everything seems within your reach with only a little or no efforts?  Have you thought of achieving results without doing anything? Do you sometimes imagine a world were every of your wish comes true within seconds?  Well I'm sure even if you don't have these Dreams or imaginations often, you once thought about it, right? It's cool actually, except that it doesn't work and will never work that way. The universe is answering and operating on some PRINCIPLES, and these principles are well UNDERSTOOD by those who have sought to FIGURE it out. Dreams are good, in fact, they are one of the major reasons why we have ease in the world today. Yes, everything around now that makes life easier was once a dream, they were once someone's imaginations, but now turned reality after it had been WORKED upon. There's no way you'll get anywhere worth going without PLANNING, and there's no way your plans will come true ...

MATURITY AND AGE

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Don't mistake Beards for maturity. Don't mistake Puberty signs as maturity. Maturity is not defined by those things. Please listen to me on this. If after the first two paragraphs you read here, you're not intrigued; quit reading. You can be a 25year old baby! You can be a 40year old girl. (Not woman) You cab be a 50year old boy. (Not Man) We have people over 50 year but unwise and immature today; and i say this with utmost respect. It's true!  You see cases of a 50 year old raping a 10year old. Like what the heck? How do you explain it? If you come to a stage in your life  where you fail to take responsibility of your life, then you're still a baby. Only children need to be guided in everything they do, because we don't expect their reasoning to be perfect yet.  Maturity is a stage where you think, act and react reasonably and responsibly. If your latest beauty commendation is what you use to predict your maturity, i...

VALUES: Influence and Honor

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Everyone desires and quest for some level of respect, influence and authority.  We're mostly delighted by the sounds of Joy,  by the ecstasy of victory and by the achievement of enviable results. We love everything perfect even if we are far from perfect. We prefer to be Loved.  We prefer to be Rich. We prefer to be the ONE. We prefer to be at the top. We prefer to be the influencer.   We prefer the the titles, "honorable", " Excellency", "Leader", "Boss", " Mentor"... Every day we plan out our lives, even if we  do not plan. Yea, frankly speaking, whether you plan or not, you'll get a result. A popular saying that "if you fail to plan, you've planned to fail" is so damn true. Just as there's a reward for every action taken, there's also a reward for every "non-action" taken. Anyway, that's by the way.  So we all go out everyday to fulfil some daily functions, functions that most times determi...

GOD'S PLAN

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You know what happens to you when you sleep and have a very nice dream? Say, you dreamt and saw yourself driving a Porsche car. Or Imagine yourself standing on top of your three-storied Mansion in a hilly environ, where you can view the glamour of the earth as far as your eyes can capture. Or an imaginary honeymoon with your soulmate in Paris. Such experiences are wonderful, ain't they?  The excitement travels from your subconscious self into your physical body. You get up and recall the memory and become excited all by yourself but very angry that you woke up from it. You'd wish it doesn't end. Perhaps someone could just find a way to permanent your stay in there. Funny. I so much Love the story of Joseph from the Holy book . That passage of the Bible has really helped me understand about Dream, Purpose and Destiny more perfectly in conjunction with God's plans for everyone. God use Dreams sometimes to communicate his will and plans for us.  NB: Not all Dreams are f...

DON'T BE PRESSURED

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... For a period of time, I used to hate myself whenever I see people's achievements similar to my Dreams. I so much wanted to be successful that I want to cut as much time as possible to get it. The funny thing is that  90% of those I compare myself and results with are people older than I by far.. But nevertheless I wanted to get those results. It got to a point I couldn't even see any reason to go to school anymore. I felt like leaving school and focus on work to get these results quick. I visit my vision board frequently and analyse the routes to my dreams. I had too many things on my mind and so many goals to get. I was literally obsessed with results that I don't even check my age. Funny😊 I'm still in my twenties, but I measure up my life and goals to the standards of Great people, because I desire it.  Now this is not a bad thing. Infact, this phenomenon, if controlled and nurtured well, is one of the best approach to success;  but it brings unnecessary pressure...

GRATITUDE NEXT TO HAPPINESS

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GRATITUDE A small boy saw a toy Car and then went ahead to inform his Dad about it. "Dad, I saw a nice little Car with multiple colors like that of a rainbow at the toy shop down the street. I saw it on my way home from school today and I really Love it. Would you buy one for me, please?" Dad stooped down and grabbed his waist, "Offcourse my boy. I'll do anything for you." Meanwhile, Dad doesn't plan to. The boy was very excited by his Dad's response.  That night, before going to bed, he went to his Dad's room to say Goodnight. When he got there, he thanked him for promising to buy him the toy.  The next morning, when Dad was about to prepare him for school, he said: "Thanks Dad for the toy car." Dad smiled at him but surprised. He wondered why he said that, he had not bought it for him yet. He repeated the same when he came back from school and before the went to bed that night. He continued thanking his Dad daily f...

THE PRICE BEFORE THE PRIZE

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Wooing a lady these days seems to be very easy, but during the days of my grandfather, getting a girl's attention is like trying to pound a corn on a table. You need to see the various techniques and methodologies these guys learned to get the lady to even atleast notice them, but the pain and efforts is worth it after he eventually win her over. This is a true prize won by paying a Price. Here the bride-price he pays is nothing compared to the labor he went through and emotional turmoil he had to endure for several months (some for years). The Prize. Many times we prefer to calculate the fastest way to achieve a result and we fail to realize that, beyond the beauty of the result there are other things that makes it worth celebrating. Someone I respect a lot ones said to me that he doesn't have much regard for anyone who does not have a track record of some experience before attaining a result. In other words, you gain more respect when people see or read through your re...

THE IMPACT OF OUR CHOICES

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In the beginning, God Created everything. There's a real repercussion for every decision we make, for every choice we make, and whatever it is, it has a  real impact not only on our lives, but also everything around us. It always seems very easy to make a decision, to take an action, to undergo a project; It always seems not to be a big deal to make a choice to improve ourselves and to achieve desirable results. We most times make decisions innocently and with the best intentions, but it doesn't always turn out well for us. Many times we wish we didn't make those decisions or were a little more patient before doing it. It's okay, but the guilt and remorse doesn't change anything except helping us to be wiser next time. Whatever the consequences of any choices we make, it is ours to bare. Whatever our decision is on anything, it is our responsibility. Everything good on earth is as a result of the good choices people have made, and every u...

YOUR HAPPINESS COMES FROM WITHIN

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I often imagine why many people ignore what will give them joy and security but decide to opt for what will make them restless and broken. Then I thought.. 'INFLUENCE'. The media has a way of persuading you to engage in tasks that wouldn't benefit your life, atmost it will give you a momentary glare of pleasure. So you can see someone make a particular pose on the Internet and you spend the rest of your day rehearsing how to make it pleasurable for you, only to realize you've wasted both your time and strength, because you'll eventually find out that it's reasonless. However, if and when we see a recommendation that show us the path to the life we imagined and Dream of, we most times reject or ignore because they often don't seem like it, they don't resemble the paths we've captured in our memories for that feat. Any procedures that doesn't guarantee us an instant result is not worth our time, we all want everything easy and readily available at ...

AN IMPACT WITHIN

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If your influence doesn't start from your environment, then you're not truly Influential. If your value doesn't begin from your neighborhood, then you are not so valuable. If people around you doesn't see your importance, it means you have less value than you proud yourself to have. A life of responsibility is what I preach always. I believe if everyone takes it upon themselves to correct the wrongs around us, then we will have only few anomalies in the world. We've been taught to let things be. We've been giving a mindset of neglecting things that doesn't concern us; as long as it doesn't harm us. We have grown to overlook anything that doesn't affects us negatively. We should understand that everything that happen around us is our business. Let's stop choosing what to get involved in and what to avoid. The earth belongs to us, we have been giving the territories of the earth by the Creator. So Everything that happens on it is our respo...

Input and Output

There's an irreplaceable and undeniable connection between our PAST, PRESENT & FUTURE. You're who/what you're today because of your past decisions, actions and efforts, and who you'll be tomorrow is a function of how you invest today. Every timeline of our loves are connected, you can't avoid them, it was programmed to be so by the creator. Its no magic, one of my mentors would say.. - 'Its input, then output'. Your results will always resemble your actions and decisions; You'll  always get results of whatever exams you've written; You'll always harvest whatever you sow. Its impossible to dodge the reward of your actions, whether you want it or not, you'll get it. There's a tiny imaginary line pulling you to your future through your daily actions and commitments, and the most terrifying thing is that, you won't know until you get there, then you'll remember, this was what I did to get this. That's why we have memorie...

Take the Charge

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Have you ever felt any pressure of bringing something to the table? Perhaps an idea, a solution, a significant suggestion. Have you ever had the urge to deliver result, to come up with an idea? We live today amongst different associations, companies and families, within these groups. There are always going to be decisions to be made, needful suggestions about methodologies, about ways of enhancement of one thing or the other; and usually there are people that are most dependent on to deliver these solutions. So some members of the team are phlegmatic to doing same, they feel no urge, no pressure to deliver solutions and are mostly Okay with it. If nobody has ever given you a responsibility in your team, don't you think you should give yourself one? You see a pressing need in your team and you feel no drive at all to proffer a solution to it? And you're okay with that? Perhaps you're scared of been ignored and not regarded serious when you do, perhaps you've...

Vision drives the Future

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Your Vision is that which you see yourself achieving. Its the possibilities you have been able to capture in your mind and hence work tirelessly to achieve. Without Vision, you're not sure what you're doing or what you ought to do, you'll keep guessing your way into many things. The scopes of life is not understand without vision, and the essence of living is not property decoded when it's lost. Now I'm very careful to use the word impossible, but its practically not likely for you to get to where you can't see physically. This is the same with our mind, you cannot get results higher and greater than what has been captured in your mind. Your Vision is not created in your eyes, it is established in your Mind, your mind houses your visions.  There's so much to say and so much that has been said about Vision. It's also good to understand that you can have vision in every areas of your life, vision for you Family, vision for your financ...

Experience

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The Daily Experience

Times and Seasons

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You have to understand how God walks with you . Its very important for us to understand times and seasons. There are different seasons in a year, different times of the day, different occurrences in life. What works out well in one season might not be same in another. It rained for a season, It might be dry in the next. Things are gloomy now for you, what if it diminishes later? I know you probably don't wanna hear that, but let me tell you; remember Job? That righteous Wealthy Man in the Bible? Yea, he was a Man who was prepared for any season. He owned everything he ever wanted, but was not carried away by them. He understands times and seasons. Nobody wants BAD things, but what do you do when bad things happen? Do you gas off? Do you just stumble back? There is still life in every season. You've got to be prepare to fit into any season! Don't be too attached to your material things, don't be too absorbed in your comfort and wealth, don't be taken away by ...