MATURITY AND AGE

Don't mistake Beards for maturity. Don't mistake Puberty signs as maturity. Maturity is not defined by those things. Please listen to me on this. If after the first two paragraphs you read here, you're not intrigued; quit reading.

You can be a 25year old baby!

You can be a 40year old girl. (Not woman)

You cab be a 50year old boy. (Not Man)

We have people over 50 year but unwise and immature today; and i say this with utmost respect. It's true! 

You see cases of a 50 year old raping a 10year old. Like what the heck? How do you explain it?

If you come to a stage in your life  where you fail to take responsibility of your life, then you're still a baby. Only children need to be guided in everything they do, because we don't expect their reasoning to be perfect yet. 

Maturity is a stage where you think, act and react reasonably and responsibly.

If your latest beauty commendation is what you use to predict your maturity, it's a sham. If the hails and winks you get from your admirers is how you rate your maturity, its one hell of a deception.

If the number of guys or ladies running after you is what you use to rate your maturity, then something is wrong.

That's why you see a lot of guys and ladies put their selves  into a lot of mess at the earliest stage of their lives, because of early exposure to the internet and the social sphere.

A 15 year old already taking abortion pills. Jeez!i Like what would become the later part of that one's life?

At this stage I will love to also donate some blames to the parents; who supports the exposure of their wards to the sorry social atmosphere that is dominated by the sons of Lucifer.

A beautiful young girl destroying her God-given beauty with unreasonable additions. You then become a beautiful nonsense, a decorated monkey, all in the name of fashion. 

You wear clothes you can't be comfortable in, all in the name of impressing your peers and the opposite sex. 

See, I've come to a stage in my life, and by the Grace of God, no body can force me to do anything I'm not yet convinced about, not even religiously.

Listen to me; everyone has a call to make; everyone has a choice to make; everyone has the decision to make. 

You did it because you want to do it. Don't tell me it was a mistake. Between the period you were having that feeling and when you actually committed the act,  you had the Chance to quench that hunger, but you didn't.

Responsibility and reasonableness is what qualifies you as a matured adult. Age doesn't matter. 

Age only has an experiential advantage. A small boy can be smarter than a yong adult. Its all in your senses and reasoning. 

If after You're offended by someone, who doesn't even know about it, you still nurture it for over month, angry and bitter against the person, then you're still unreasonable and a baby.

If you still wake up every morning, and dive out of bed and straight to watching movies or playing games that you slept on, having no sense of any daily schedules and Responsibility, then you're still a baby, no matter your age.

If at 30 years of age you're still so much conformable in your parents couch, never wanting to do anything to assist the family, all you know is "give me" or "help me"; then I'm scared for your future.

Wake up my friends. You don't become matured by growing in age or in experience. If your experience hasn't made you wiser then you're still irresponsible. 

You are matured because of the things you can now handle on your own. 

The degree to which you can control your urges; your hormones; your needs; pressures around you and so on is what defines the level of your maturity.

#Liveresponsibility

#thinkresponsibly